Dealing with Difficult Emotions in your Relationship

Emotional adulthood in your relationship. Are you an emotional adult yet? “You make me feel sad… frustrated… disappointed!” is a common way to express our emotions to our partners, when we are unhappy. Most of our emotional wounds are caused by other people, such is our perception anyway. It’s most…



So Facebook ambushed me with a TimeHop post this morning, with a photo of my daughter ten years ago. The overwhelming cuteness of her literally sucked all the oxygen out of my lungs, and my eyes misted over. It must have been the onions I was chopping earlier in the week….


Can’t Find the Bathroom – Online Dating Disaster

Can’t Find the Bathroom Not me. I know where the bathroom is in my own apartment. My Bumble date however, couldn’t figure it out. Let’s start at the beginning… I joined Bumble (another dating app) a few days ago after some encouragement from a friend. I matched with a few…


Winning In Vegas

Ahhhh Las Vegas. Party central, hook-up heaven…and hangover hell. Never, I repeat, never book an early flight to leave Vegas. You will suffer from major anxiety, you will smell like booze and you will count every sorry minute till you get back to the comfort of your little apartment and…


Wing Man for the Win.

Wing Man for The Win Me that is. I wing-manned and I won. My pal Amanda had met some dude during the summer at a party at the Playboy Mansion. He was a young guy from Boston in LA on a business trip and was going to be back in…



Brentwood  Our Single and Loving it Chick! Hello Chicks, sorry I haven’t written in a while. A lot has happened in the last few months and a lot hasn’t been happening…I have been sexually inactive since December. No shenanigans, no penetration, nothing. Nada. Zip. Today’s tale is from over a…


Drive Safely – A Date With A Douche bag

My flat mate, Stephen, was working as a writer’s assistant for a TV show and when filming was done he invited me to the wrap party in Hollywood. It would be the whole cast and crew, director and producers. “Hmmmm…maybe…” I said “It’s open bar,” he said. I said, “I’m…

Top 5 Essential Oils that are Natural Aphrodisiacs

5 Essential Oils that are Natural Aphrodisiacs Since ancient Egypt, we know that Natural Aphrodisiacs were foods to the Gods. Scent and aroma was essential back then too, for decoration, hygiene and spiritual cleansing. Today, therapists insist on the use of Natural Essentials for ailments, during holistic treatments and in…


How to live fully in the present relationship

HOW TO LIVE FULLY IN THE PRESENT RELATIONSHIP February… the month of LOVE, the month of Valentines, hearts, chocolates and kisses. It is interesting to see how many people are more concerned about their relationships at this time of the year than any other time. Whether we believe in Valentine’s day or not,…